Overcoming Selfishness
Chapter Ten
Life Destruction When Selfishness
Turns to Scorn
“1
From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not
hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?
2
Ye lust,
and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye
fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
3
Ye ask,
and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it
upon your lusts” (James 4:1-3). Many local churches are on the verge of implosion. Explosion
means to burst outward. Implosion means to burst inward. We have
all seen pictures on T.V. of giant skyscrapers imploded by bomb
specialists. These very well trained specialists place
intricately calculated amounts of explosives at critical
structural members of the foundation of a building causing it to
cave in on itself.
This is what Satan is doing with carnal Christians in local
churches all over our country. If Satan cannot destroy a local
church with false doctrine or compromise, he will try to destroy
it with internal conflict. A carnal Christian is defined as a
person who wants his will (his way) over God’s will. A carnal
Christian is a person who allows Satan’s Seed of selfishness to
regularly and continually be sown through his life. Satan wants
to place this kind of person in strategical positions of
leadership within the local church at foundational levels of
ministry.
These people often appear to be outstanding Christians on the
outside. They are faithful attendees of most, if not all, of the
Church services. They are willing to volunteer for many
positions within the local church, especially those positions
that give them prestige in the community. I have noticed some
common and critical character traits of these sticks of dynamite
over the years. In talking with many wise Pastors with years of
experience, they have confirmed these character traits.
1. Very seldom do these people ever lead anyone to Christ or
actively minister to people outside the Church House walls.
2. Scorners are often women who have taken the leadership of
their homes and resent any authority in their lives, or who it
is someone covertly being influenced by such a woman. This statement is not intended to put a blanket
shadow of
suspicion on all women in our churches. Some of the most godly,
loving, patient, supportive people I know are precious Lady
Saints deserving of honor and praise. In many cases, women are
better working models of spirituality and Christianity as a
whole than men are.
It is the Scorner (male or female) that we must watch out for.
The Scorner is an unforgiving person who holds another person in
contempt and is often indignant towards people, frequently
castigating someone because the Scorner has been offended for
some reason. The source of this contempt is either conviction of
some sin that the Scorner is not willing to repent of or
self-righteousness. The Scorner’s spirit is closed to the truth
of his sinful selfishness and to anyone that he thinks sees him
for what he is (a scorner) and understands what his real
spiritual condition is.
Scorner’s are often self-righteous people who hold everyone to a
higher standard of living than they have for themselves.
Contempt for those that do not meet their hypocritical
evaluation criteria is the common way they manifest their
self-righteousness and the way a scorner is exposed.
My wife noticed a woman in one of our churches who obviously
held me in contempt. She never laughed at my jokes and
frequently showed her contempt for me by non-verbal
communication (mannerisms such as folding her arms over her
chest when she closed her heart to what I was saying or rolling
her eyes in ridicule to what I said). I shrugged my wife’s
comments off not giving them much consideration. However, not
long after that, this person began to attack through Loaded
Guns, doing much damage. When I finally left the church many
years later, I was told she celebrated my leaving as a victory
for herself. The contempt and carnal indignation of the Scorner comes from
his/her own unwillingness to forgive or look beyond a person’s
faults to his potential in Christ and help that person grow in
the grace of Christ. The Scorner does not see people with
compassion or with a heart to help them grow. The Scorner wants
to be rid of the person held in contempt and will do about
anything to get rid of him.
The Scorner is a dangerous person in a local church. Be sure, if
you have one, he/she will eventually be the source of serious
conflict to the Pastor or within the local church. The reason
this is true is due to the spiritual dynamic of preaching. As
the pastor preaches the Word of God, a spiritual dynamic is
taking place. The Spirit of God uses the truth being preached to
confront the carnal Christian’s lifestyle. If that believer is
not willing to yield his will to the will of God as the Spirit
of God brings conviction, the hardening to the will of God will
bring about guilt. The carnal Christian will then begin to
rationalize about the area of his life he is not willing to
yield to God’s will in order to justify himself. In doing so,
his rationalization will generate contempt for the message
preached and, ultimately, contempt for the preacher that
preaches it. The conscience will become “seared” and the heart
will become hardened and closed to any future confrontation
resulting in running, covering, and hiding or attacking the
Messenger.
In my experience, when a Scorner reveals himself by contemptuous
actions, this is usually the dynamic behind his contempt. The
Scorner’s contemptuous actions seek to rid himself of the person
he holds in contempt rather than seeking a solution to this
conflict that is going on in his own soul through confession,
repentance, and yielding to God’s will. The Scorner’s taking
offense is often a mask of his own guilt about something he is
not willing to yield to God. “Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall
offend them” (Psalm 119:165).
The problem here is simple. The solution is equally simple. The
Scorner is under conviction about something the Spirit of God
reveals about his life that is out of harmony with God’s Word.
The solution involves confronting the Scorner with the fact of
his own self-deception regarding whatever it is he is unwilling
to yield to the Lord. Unless Christians understand this dynamic,
the Scorner will frequently be successful in driving the person
held in contempt out of the Church, often the Pastor. God forbid
that any church allows this to happen to their Pastor.
That is why God tells us to deal swiftly and harshly with the
Scorner. However, if the Pastor is the person being held in
contempt and being attacked by the Scorner, the deacons of the
church need to surround him and protect him from the Scorner.
The deacons should be the people dealing with the Scorner. The
Pastor (or any person being attacked by the Scorner) will not be
able to resolve this. The Scorner’s contempt will keep him/her
from seeking resolution because the Scorner’s focus is on
revenge and destruction (even though they will deny this). This
is also why God tells us that when we try to deal with the
Scorner, we should expect retaliation and implosion. “He that reproveth a scorner getteth to himself shame: and he
that rebuketh a wicked man getteth himself a blot” (Proverbs
9:7).
According to this verse of Scripture, the Scorner will seek to
bring “shame” upon the person who seeks to correct him and the
Scorner will try to put a “blot” upon his character (the “wicked
man” is synonymous with the Scorner). Expect this kind of
response from the Scorner. The word “shame” in the above verse
is from the Hebrew word qalown (kaw-lone’). In the strictest
sense, it means to expose a person’s nakedness (pudenda). In
other words, expect this person to do just about anything to
destroy the character of the one held in contempt or to demean
that person in the eyes of other people. A Scorner will find
something (even if he has to make something up or exaggerate
some fault) to denigrate the person who seeks to reprove him. The following verses list other things you can expect from the
“scorner.” These things do not mean you should not do what you
are supposed to do in reproving the Scorner, it is just that God
wants us to be aware of what can be expected from the Scorner
when the Word of God brings him/her under conviction and he/she
is not willing to repent. These responses are things that will
make the Scorner evident to everyone. “Reprove not a scorner, lest he hate thee: rebuke a wise man,
and he will love thee” (Proverbs 9:8). “A wise son heareth his father’s instruction: but a scorner
heareth not rebuke” (Proverbs 13:1). “A scorner seeketh wisdom, and findeth it not: but knowledge is
easy unto him that understandeth” (Proverbs 14:6). “A scorner loveth not one that reproveth him: neither will he go
unto the wise” (Proverbs 15:12). Because Scorners can be such a difficult people to deal with,
they intimidate many people. Scorners count on intimidation.
They have learned that intimidation is a very powerful tool in
getting their way. If the Scorner is allowed to play his little
game of carnality in the church for very long, expect him to
gather a following and expect war. God tells us to deal swiftly and harshly with the Scorner. There
is too much at stake to play Patty-Cake with this type of
person. Deacons should especially learn to discern the
characteristics of Scorners and be willing to deal with them
before they can attack the Pastor and his family (and Satan will
eventually lead them there by that ring of carnality he put in
mankind’s nose at the fall).
God wants the Scorner dealt with swiftly and harshly to avoid
the corruption of the “simple” in the church. The word “simple”
in the following verses is from the Hebrew word p@thiy (peth-ee’).
It refers to the person easily influenced by someone else or to
the person easy enticed or seduced into error. It refers to a
naïve person who does not understand the spiritual dynamic of
truth, conviction, guilt and a proper Biblical response to that
dynamic.
This is the type of person the Scorner USES. The “simple” person
needs to be protected from the Scorner. Primarily, the Scorner
needs to be publicly dealt with clearly and directly to avoid
the spiritual corruption of the “simple.” “Smite a scorner, and the simple will beware: and reprove one
that hath understanding, and he will understand knowledge”
(Proverbs 19:25). “When the scorner is punished, the simple is made wise: and when
the wise is instructed, he receiveth knowledge” (Proverbs
21:11).
The source of the Scorner’s carnality is his pride and
self-righteousness. He becomes his own measuring stick for all
other people of what is right or good. If anyone does not bow
down to the Scorner’s opinion, that person automatically becomes
another target of the Scorner’s contempt. “Proud and haughty scorner is his name, who dealeth in proud
wrath” (Proverbs 21:24)
There is only one solution to the problem of the unrepentant
Scorner. “Cast out the scorner, and contention shall go out; yea, strife
and reproach shall cease” (Proverbs 22:10). “The thought of foolishness is sin: and the scorner is an
abomination to men” (Proverbs 24:9).
